"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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CrazyandLazy

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I just got out of a relationship and was wondering what I should do with my other friend who is a hotter girl than my ex.

The bad side
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1.I already told her I wanted to be friends. She said ok.
2.I asked her out to go to the movies and she said she will call when she and her friends go. I already whined about 2 times on the internet and 1 time on phone about this to her.

The good side
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1.she thinks highly of me
2.she likes talking to me online and on the phone

I haven't told her about the break-up. I'm wondering if I should tell her.
I'm also wondering if I should just ask her to go with me just the two of us.

Ugh...still a noob at this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Conquer

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you still have a chance, but please be more careful bout your actions
 
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CrazyandLazy said:
1.I already told her I wanted to be friends. She said ok.
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Not particularly good.

I asked her out to go to the movies and she said she will call when she and her friends go.
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Friendzone. She also has all the power.

I already whined about 2 times on the internet and 1 time on phone about this to her.
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Bad. Don't whine.

2.she likes talking to me online and on the phone
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Doesn't matter, real life is all that matters.

I'm also wondering if I should just ask her to go with me just the two of us.
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Yes. Either get a date, or get rejected.

Ugh...still a noob at this.
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Read the DJ Bible. Link is at the bottom of the page.
 
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CrazyandLazy

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k thanks Conquer and Captain. I think I'll just have to sort this one out myself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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