"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CrazyandLazy

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I just got out of a relationship and was wondering what I should do with my other friend who is a hotter girl than my ex.

The bad side
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1.I already told her I wanted to be friends. She said ok.
2.I asked her out to go to the movies and she said she will call when she and her friends go. I already whined about 2 times on the internet and 1 time on phone about this to her.

The good side
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1.she thinks highly of me
2.she likes talking to me online and on the phone

I haven't told her about the break-up. I'm wondering if I should tell her.
I'm also wondering if I should just ask her to go with me just the two of us.

Ugh...still a noob at this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Conquer

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you still have a chance, but please be more careful bout your actions
 
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CrazyandLazy said:
1.I already told her I wanted to be friends. She said ok.
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Not particularly good.

I asked her out to go to the movies and she said she will call when she and her friends go.
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Friendzone. She also has all the power.

I already whined about 2 times on the internet and 1 time on phone about this to her.
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Bad. Don't whine.

2.she likes talking to me online and on the phone
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Doesn't matter, real life is all that matters.

I'm also wondering if I should just ask her to go with me just the two of us.
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Yes. Either get a date, or get rejected.

Ugh...still a noob at this.
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Read the DJ Bible. Link is at the bottom of the page.
 
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CrazyandLazy

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k thanks Conquer and Captain. I think I'll just have to sort this one out myself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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