"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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CrazyandLazy

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I just got out of a relationship and was wondering what I should do with my other friend who is a hotter girl than my ex.

The bad side
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1.I already told her I wanted to be friends. She said ok.
2.I asked her out to go to the movies and she said she will call when she and her friends go. I already whined about 2 times on the internet and 1 time on phone about this to her.

The good side
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1.she thinks highly of me
2.she likes talking to me online and on the phone

I haven't told her about the break-up. I'm wondering if I should tell her.
I'm also wondering if I should just ask her to go with me just the two of us.

Ugh...still a noob at this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Conquer

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you still have a chance, but please be more careful bout your actions
 
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CrazyandLazy said:
1.I already told her I wanted to be friends. She said ok.
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Not particularly good.

I asked her out to go to the movies and she said she will call when she and her friends go.
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Friendzone. She also has all the power.

I already whined about 2 times on the internet and 1 time on phone about this to her.
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Bad. Don't whine.

2.she likes talking to me online and on the phone
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Doesn't matter, real life is all that matters.

I'm also wondering if I should just ask her to go with me just the two of us.
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Yes. Either get a date, or get rejected.

Ugh...still a noob at this.
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Read the DJ Bible. Link is at the bottom of the page.
 
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CrazyandLazy

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k thanks Conquer and Captain. I think I'll just have to sort this one out myself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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