"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do girls with a high kiddy voice have a trouble past?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by SynTheUnscathed
Stop discussing quantum physics with people to make a point. Half the people here have no clue what you are talking about.
i thought it to be a good example, being that quantum physics is the ultimate "what if" topic

i guess i could've just called the guy an idiot like the rest of the posters did, but that would be boring
 

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this is interesting...I wouldn't mind reading up on this topic a little bit.

I know for a fact tho it's not entirely accurate. I've known several girls who were abused and don't have kiddy voices. but still, interesting topic

I think with the whole predicting thing, we can all do that. How many times have you known something about someone just by the way they talk? There are going to be patterns that exist and using these patterns, predictions can be made. Kinda like how the DJ game uses female behavioural patterns to create a general game plan for us to follow.

ok, im gonna stop now HAHAHAHA!
 

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I knew this really attractive girl who asked people to call her by a name other than her name... It was wierd.. I told my friend about it, and he said she might've been raped and she's doing that because in her mind "so and so got raped, but (name she asks people to call her) didn't..."

I thought my friend was just talking bull****..

I got to talking to her like a year later on IM. I found out not only that she used to like me, but she gave me her sexual past too out of nowhere (I didn't care, nor did I ask).. Indeed, she was raped as a kid...

It's very sad, but life isn't perfect.
 

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AIX237: What makes me so smart? Um how about... Im a man and just coz Im a man that makes me smart, just like all girls that have sqeaky voices were abused as a child... Just like everyone that smokes is gay, just like everyone that posts here is picking up every week...

Really, come on now!

You cant generalize like that...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Man, a month’s departure from this website was marvelous but I was disappointed by the timing; I wanted to finish this conversation.
Silverback82:
did they say how their voices sound?
I never heard Dr. Drew give an explanation of the stoner voice; it’s so subtle that it’s probably hard to describe and takes a good ear. I could never figure out how they picked up on it, and I still can’t, although I’m getting better at my stoner radar. However, other voices are easy to discern. Virgins characteristically have a squeeky clean voice accompanied by anxiety and meth addicts have a white trashy voice.
smoove:
I know for a fact tho it's not entirely accurate. I've known several girls who were abused and don't have kiddy voices.
For some reason, the childish voice only applies to severe sexual abuse. Not abuse in general, not sexual abuse in general, but severe sexual abuse. Most women who were abused, sexually abused, don’t have a childish voice. The vast majority don’t. But it works the other way around. If you run across a woman with a childish voice, then she was sexually abused to the severity that (for whatever reason) she developed a childish voice.
 
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