Dhoulmagus
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It seems like they have the power of amnesia
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Do girls that were interested in you totally forget about you after nc
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
Depends on the impression you gave them..
Renegade357
Master Don Juan
You talking about a 1 year long term girlfriend or some girl you asked out on one date? Makes a big difference.
Depends on how much of a chump you were. If you walked away like a man, she will never forget you. You'll always pop up in her *twisted* mind time to time. Specially when she meets a new BF, as she'll be comparing the both of you.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Renegade357
Master Don Juan
So true. That's why they try to destroy you in the end and make you humiliate yourself via begging/other stupid actions to get them back. Makes it easier for them to move on to the next sucker.adam225 said:
You walk away like a man it'll leave them confused and second guessing. Maybe not right away but definitely a few months down the road when the next guy starts to make mistakes.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
If you're doing nc correctly, you won't give a crap.