Dhoulmagus
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It seems like they have the power of amnesia
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Do girls that were interested in you totally forget about you after nc
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
Depends on the impression you gave them..
Renegade357
Master Don Juan
You talking about a 1 year long term girlfriend or some girl you asked out on one date? Makes a big difference.
Depends on how much of a chump you were. If you walked away like a man, she will never forget you. You'll always pop up in her *twisted* mind time to time. Specially when she meets a new BF, as she'll be comparing the both of you.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Renegade357
Master Don Juan
So true. That's why they try to destroy you in the end and make you humiliate yourself via begging/other stupid actions to get them back. Makes it easier for them to move on to the next sucker.adam225 said:
You walk away like a man it'll leave them confused and second guessing. Maybe not right away but definitely a few months down the road when the next guy starts to make mistakes.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
If you're doing nc correctly, you won't give a crap.