Dhoulmagus
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It seems like they have the power of amnesia
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do girls that were interested in you totally forget about you after nc
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
Depends on the impression you gave them..
Renegade357
Master Don Juan
You talking about a 1 year long term girlfriend or some girl you asked out on one date? Makes a big difference.
Depends on how much of a chump you were. If you walked away like a man, she will never forget you. You'll always pop up in her *twisted* mind time to time. Specially when she meets a new BF, as she'll be comparing the both of you.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Renegade357
Master Don Juan
So true. That's why they try to destroy you in the end and make you humiliate yourself via begging/other stupid actions to get them back. Makes it easier for them to move on to the next sucker.adam225 said:
You walk away like a man it'll leave them confused and second guessing. Maybe not right away but definitely a few months down the road when the next guy starts to make mistakes.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
If you're doing nc correctly, you won't give a crap.