"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do girls only seek attention they are interested? Or just any guy?

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Do girls want attention from guys they are interested, or from just any random guys? I know when I dress down, t-shirt, shorts, sandals, girls look right past by me. When I dress in wingtip, collar shirts, they like to sit in front of me at public places, or purposely pass by me. It seems like my housemate wants attention from me.

Also, please please answer on my post here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=2202538&postcount=9

I am not a troll, so please do not give the NC/no reply to a homie, as you would to a girl.

Thanks, you guys have been very helpful, still learning! :)
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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They work their way down.

Attention from who they fancy and if they don't get that they'll take any attention they can get.

TBH, I'm the same. I will hit up girls I don't even fancy from time to time if I'm bored or my ego needs some validation and the one's I do aren't being particularly responsive.
 
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In a perfect world, only guys that she is attracted to would even exist lol. Yes, all else being equal, women much prefer the attention of guys they are attracted to.

Women also like to have orbiters in friend zone, but it's not same thing. It's attention, yes, but a different kind of attention.
 
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Orbiter attention just feeds their ego.
 
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