"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do girls only seek attention they are interested? Or just any guy?

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Do girls want attention from guys they are interested, or from just any random guys? I know when I dress down, t-shirt, shorts, sandals, girls look right past by me. When I dress in wingtip, collar shirts, they like to sit in front of me at public places, or purposely pass by me. It seems like my housemate wants attention from me.

Also, please please answer on my post here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=2202538&postcount=9

I am not a troll, so please do not give the NC/no reply to a homie, as you would to a girl.

Thanks, you guys have been very helpful, still learning! :)
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They work their way down.

Attention from who they fancy and if they don't get that they'll take any attention they can get.

TBH, I'm the same. I will hit up girls I don't even fancy from time to time if I'm bored or my ego needs some validation and the one's I do aren't being particularly responsive.
 
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In a perfect world, only guys that she is attracted to would even exist lol. Yes, all else being equal, women much prefer the attention of guys they are attracted to.

Women also like to have orbiters in friend zone, but it's not same thing. It's attention, yes, but a different kind of attention.
 
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Orbiter attention just feeds their ego.
 
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