Precursor
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Yo i wonder if girls need forums like this to help aid their lives?? or are they naturally seductive, cunning, and masterminds?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Do Girls need a forum?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Girls are just like us. There are AFC girls, DJ girls. The hotter, the more Don Juan/Jerk they are. The uglier, the nicer they are. Some girls are sleepers (not as a hoe, but like in fantasy football sleeper), and don't know their own beauty and might be nice. Same thing with guys.
But overall, girls are better at the game than we are.
But overall, girls are better at the game than we are.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You give them way too much credit. Go check out the forums at Oprah.com, DrPhil.com or iVilliage.com and then reconsider who you are up against.Precursor said:Yo i wonder if girls need forums like this to help aid their lives?? or are they naturally seductive, cunning, and masterminds?
CactusMcDougal
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This is an unfortunate truth. As long as women are the defensors in the game, we, the agressors, will always be at a disadvantage. That's why I, like many Eternal Nice Guys, only play a defensive game...if we play at all.Girls are just like us. There are AFC girls, DJ girls. The hotter, the more Don Juan/Jerk they are. The uglier, the nicer they are. Some girls are sleepers (not as a hoe, but like in fantasy football sleeper), and don't know their own beauty and might be nice. Same thing with guys.
But overall, girls are better at the game than we are.
Its not that they are better, its that they are playing a completely different game. The girls job is to show up, look good, and make themselves available. After that they just have to filter through the crap they attract.
A guys job is to pick what he wants and go for it. Like I said different game completely.
If you want proof just think of the last time you were hanging out and a girl came up to you and asked you for your number. Not very often. They have their games, we have ours, and if were lucky both teams come out winners.
As for them needing outside help, next time your at a super market look at the magazine rack. I guarantee you'll see 50 headlines about how girls can make themselves more attractive to have more success.
In a sense we kind of lucked out considering we can do something about our situation to make it much better. Girls kind of get stuck working within the restrictions of their natural beauty, so all they can do is attempt to make up for there shortcomings with makeup, heels, and hairstyles.
A guys job is to pick what he wants and go for it. Like I said different game completely.
If you want proof just think of the last time you were hanging out and a girl came up to you and asked you for your number. Not very often. They have their games, we have ours, and if were lucky both teams come out winners.
As for them needing outside help, next time your at a super market look at the magazine rack. I guarantee you'll see 50 headlines about how girls can make themselves more attractive to have more success.
In a sense we kind of lucked out considering we can do something about our situation to make it much better. Girls kind of get stuck working within the restrictions of their natural beauty, so all they can do is attempt to make up for there shortcomings with makeup, heels, and hairstyles.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Francisco d'Anconia said:You give them way too much credit. Go check out the forums at Oprah.com, DrPhil.com or iVilliage.com and then reconsider who you are up against.
Exactly, what we men have compared to the resources women have on dating and relationships is pretty much a drop in their bucket. Plus the majority of men in our society would probably shun or won't even think about educating themselves on how to deal with women better. It's a shame but the men like us who find a wealth of information like the "seduction community" are truly blessed.
CactusMcDougal
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There was a time when I thought that my mother held all pertinent information. That all changed when I found this forum.
GaryUranga
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Dude, stop being a nice guy, is not nice.
IMO, its the same as us, except society has built the whole "guys chase, girls pick" image as you can see in movies and such, but I know a bunhc of girls that have all theese self image problems though theyre beautiful (of course I dont tell them that) but theres maaany AFC girls, they can always get the horny/low standard guys, but this doesnt happen for guys too often.
IMO, its the same as us, except society has built the whole "guys chase, girls pick" image as you can see in movies and such, but I know a bunhc of girls that have all theese self image problems though theyre beautiful (of course I dont tell them that) but theres maaany AFC girls, they can always get the horny/low standard guys, but this doesnt happen for guys too often.