regular_guy
Don Juan
I had my salsa class again. But I think I messed up.
I danced with the same girl where there is a bit of a mutual attraction going. It was all well, some small talk, nothing deep. The class ends, everyone beings to get their stuff. We are walking out, she suggest she would not mind going dancing on Sunaday but does not want to go alone. There is a salsa event.
I say " hey why don't you give me your number?"
her : "okay .. its 23423432432"
(after this I did not know where I am going with it, its a Sunday so I am not sure of it, don't know if I will be hung over from the day before, if I will not feel like going etc. I was like a deer stuck in head lights. My mind started racing.. and I even went the wrong way in the elevator. I was lost. lol!.)
me: "some undetermined plan mumbling. "
me: "I will call you. "
her: "okay, if I am available"
I am probably over thinking this whole event. Its something new to me. Any who salsa is this Sunday. Today is Wednesday. But I want to take her to a coffee shop to get to know her better, as I don't know much about her.
Need some advice on when to call? I was thinking Friday. Should I just ignore the awkward moment, and not talk about it next time we meet? Kinda just want to chat a little before I take her dancing. What you guys/gals think? I think I made her feel as a backup plan, which I think is kinda a failure on my part. Good lesson though.
I danced with the same girl where there is a bit of a mutual attraction going. It was all well, some small talk, nothing deep. The class ends, everyone beings to get their stuff. We are walking out, she suggest she would not mind going dancing on Sunaday but does not want to go alone. There is a salsa event.
I say " hey why don't you give me your number?"
her : "okay .. its 23423432432"
(after this I did not know where I am going with it, its a Sunday so I am not sure of it, don't know if I will be hung over from the day before, if I will not feel like going etc. I was like a deer stuck in head lights. My mind started racing.. and I even went the wrong way in the elevator. I was lost. lol!.)
me: "some undetermined plan mumbling. "
me: "I will call you. "
her: "okay, if I am available"
I am probably over thinking this whole event. Its something new to me. Any who salsa is this Sunday. Today is Wednesday. But I want to take her to a coffee shop to get to know her better, as I don't know much about her.
Need some advice on when to call? I was thinking Friday. Should I just ignore the awkward moment, and not talk about it next time we meet? Kinda just want to chat a little before I take her dancing. What you guys/gals think? I think I made her feel as a backup plan, which I think is kinda a failure on my part. Good lesson though.