"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
do girls like drama?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ARrocket
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Now, the word "drama" is tricky. Girls like to FEEL. They like to feel a whole range of emotions. That's what a lot of learning to attract girls is all about. The push/pulls, the C&F, the kino, etc. It's about making them feel different things. They like this, so if you do that, they'll like you.
That's why nice guys and AFCs bore women. They don't make them FEEL anything out of the ordinary. That's why girls fall for @ssholes. They'd rather feel those negative feelings than feel the nothingness that the wussyboy has to offer.
That's why girls watch Lifetime and read romance novels and all that crap. The drama.
My last GF wasen't that way though, she was a really cool chick and the only ex I actually still get along with after we broke up.
Now I had some other plates going after her, the last one was a real dramaqueen. First she wants me and I'm really into this girl, but she's going really fast. Calling me "baby" and telling me how much she likes me.
Now this kinda scared me cause it was going to fast, but I didn't wanna lose this girl so I thought "best thing to do is act the same way" that way she won't get spooked. Epic fail...
The moment I started acting like she did, she started backing off. I finally ask her what's up and she tells me: 'You're going to fast'. I was like: 'WTF, I'm just acting the way you did girl. You were going to fast for me but I didn't wanna scare you'. We kinda made up but it just wasen't the same.
So a week passes, I'm in her bed, she's acting non receptive so I point it out that it's just not working out. She agrees. I tell her we shouldn't hook up again, she agrees again. Then she starts asking me personal questions like why I'm so cold.
I dunno why I did it but some how I told her a really personal story about me and my brother and she knew it was for real. Next thing I know she starts kissing me again and sitting on top of me
. Few days later, she was non receptive again .Anyhow, I broke it off for real after that. I still like her considering she's really nice, very VERY good looking girl but I just can't keep up with the drama this girl needs. To bad though, if she wasen't such a dramaqueen she would've been nice to have as a gf.
Ow well, Next
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Some b!tches sure are hypocrites
. I dunno why I keep up with sh.t like that too, guess in a way I can be a nice guy never thought that would happenAce_Magnamus
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She screamed at me, stormed back to the hotel, said "if you touch me again I'll call the police", and then had sex with me.
I took that as a "yes".
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
If they didn't then there's no explanation for soap operas and sex n the city being on the air as long as they have.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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ARocket answered my question pretty well when he mentioned that they like to "feel".
should you start some drama with a girl just for drama's sake?
Same exact **** is going on w/ my girl right now and I think it's way too late to fix. This same scenario happened to me a couple days ago and I did the stupid AFC move of asking "WTF?" instead of just saying it wasnt working out.Credos said:
I'm going over to her house tonight and if it's the same **** I will just man up and say it's not working out. I was just planning on using her for sex / trying to get some other girls (girls think your more attractive while taken, especially by a hot girl) but if sex won't even happen, what's the point?
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I don't think "like" as in enjoy drama in their lives is necessarily the correct term. Girls enjoy gossip and secrets. It's essentially currency in their cliques most of the time. It gives then status advantage over other girls especially when they're at a physical disadvantage fron their counterparts. In order for that world to exist, there must be some form and level of drama around them almost constantly. So they vicariously like it despite the b*tching that accompanies it.garruk said:
And don't worry about "starting drama" with a girl. Just by being around her or her friends or her friends friends or some one she heard about but doesn't know, your involvement has already begun.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
lolozzfest said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.