do girls like drama?

[garruk]

do girls like drama with their boyfrineds? boviosuly if you asked one, they would say no, but do you think they like that whole rollercoaster thing in the long run?


jw. would love to hear personal stories on htis.

 

[ARrocket]

Of course they do! Girls love drama. They thrive off of drama.

Now, the word "drama" is tricky. Girls like to FEEL. They like to feel a whole range of emotions. That's what a lot of learning to attract girls is all about. The push/pulls, the C&F, the kino, etc. It's about making them feel different things. They like this, so if you do that, they'll like you.

That's why nice guys and AFCs bore women. They don't make them FEEL anything out of the ordinary. That's why girls fall for @ssholes. They'd rather feel those negative feelings than feel the nothingness that the wussyboy has to offer.

That's why girls watch Lifetime and read romance novels and all that crap. The drama.

 

[ozzfest]

The absolutely adore it

 

[crazyboy]

yep it like a high for them

 

[Credos]

Sh*t most of em do that's for sure!

My last GF wasen't that way though, she was a really cool chick and the only ex I actually still get along with after we broke up.

Now I had some other plates going after her, the last one was a real dramaqueen. First she wants me and I'm really into this girl, but she's going really fast. Calling me "baby" and telling me how much she likes me.
Now this kinda scared me cause it was going to fast, but I didn't wanna lose this girl so I thought "best thing to do is act the same way" that way she won't get spooked. Epic fail...

The moment I started acting like she did, she started backing off. I finally ask her what's up and she tells me: 'You're going to fast'. I was like: 'WTF, I'm just acting the way you did girl. You were going to fast for me but I didn't wanna scare you'. We kinda made up but it just wasen't the same.

So a week passes, I'm in her bed, she's acting non receptive so I point it out that it's just not working out. She agrees. I tell her we shouldn't hook up again, she agrees again. Then she starts asking me personal questions like why I'm so cold.

I dunno why I did it but some how I told her a really personal story about me and my brother and she knew it was for real. Next thing I know she starts kissing me again and sitting on top of me . Few days later, she was non receptive again .

Anyhow, I broke it off for real after that. I still like her considering she's really nice, very VERY good looking girl but I just can't keep up with the drama this girl needs. To bad though, if she wasen't such a dramaqueen she would've been nice to have as a gf.

Ow well, Next

 

[Credos]

They also tend to make alot of jealous drama if they know you spin other plates... I openly admitted to one I was seeing other girls (she was the first to ask me so, the others never asked). Now she only wants to be friends, but constantly texts me. Most of the conversations ends about me being an @sshole for screwing other girls. While, when I was dating her, she didn't want to date only me, she didn't tell me that but I knew that was the truth...

Some b!tches sure are hypocrites . I dunno why I keep up with sh.t like that too, guess in a way I can be a nice guy never thought that would happen

 

[LoneWolf]

i think mostly young girls do this. the girl i'm with doesn't do any drama or plays games. she's straight up. like i will call, arrange something, she'll say yes or no and that's that. then we get together and it's all good. i don't like girls who play games, i usually just drop them or use them for sex. waste of time.

 

[Ace_Magnamus]

damn right they do. they cause it all the time

 

[bigneil]

I remember one time I was walking my date back to the hotel and I asked her "Are you a drama queen?"

She screamed at me, stormed back to the hotel, said "if you touch me again I'll call the police", and then had sex with me.

I took that as a "yes".

 

[PRMoon]

Yes.
If they didn't then there's no explanation for soap operas and sex n the city being on the air as long as they have.

 

[CantTouchMyStyle]

Does a bear sh!t in the woods?

 

[garruk]

i mean its obviosu that they like to WATCH drama. but what about acutally being in it.

ARocket answered my question pretty well when he mentioned that they like to "feel".

should you start some drama with a girl just for drama's sake?

 

[joverby]

So a week passes, I'm in her bed, she's acting non receptive so I point it out that it's just not working out.

Same exact **** is going on w/ my girl right now and I think it's way too late to fix. This same scenario happened to me a couple days ago and I did the stupid AFC move of asking "WTF?" instead of just saying it wasnt working out.

I'm going over to her house tonight and if it's the same **** I will just man up and say it's not working out. I was just planning on using her for sex / trying to get some other girls (girls think your more attractive while taken, especially by a hot girl) but if sex won't even happen, what's the point?

 

[PRMoon]

i mean its obviosu that they like to WATCH drama. but what about acutally being in it.

ARocket answered my question pretty well when he mentioned that they like to "feel".

should you start some drama with a girl just for drama's sake?

I don't think "like" as in enjoy drama in their lives is necessarily the correct term. Girls enjoy gossip and secrets. It's essentially currency in their cliques most of the time. It gives then status advantage over other girls especially when they're at a physical disadvantage fron their counterparts. In order for that world to exist, there must be some form and level of drama around them almost constantly. So they vicariously like it despite the b*tching that accompanies it.

And don't worry about "starting drama" with a girl. Just by being around her or her friends or her friends friends or some one she heard about but doesn't know, your involvement has already begun.

 

[In2theGame]

The absolutely adore it

lol

 

[LoneWolf]

girls yes, women no? i don't think every female likes drama on purpose.