I know most girls dont like this at all, but my friend hooked up with this chick he just met and he would bend over back for her and text her all the time and spends all time with her. Something like that to me would make me think the girl would run away but guess not. You guys think there are girls out there that actually like the clingy nice guy?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
do girls like clingy guys?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
KontrollerX
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Like attracts like.
Which means a clingy guy and a clingy girl would probably hit it off and enjoy smothering eachother with their mutual clinginess.
Which means a clingy guy and a clingy girl would probably hit it off and enjoy smothering eachother with their mutual clinginess.
Being clingy, and spending a lot of time together is different.
Clingy reeks of desperation, neediness.
Yet, you can still spend a lot of time and be void of that feeling of neediness.
I hope you get the idea.
I literally spend time with my girl everyday -- we live together -- yet I still balance my own personal life with pleasure when she's around.
I do my work, while she does hers. All this takes place inside the same room.
It comes down to the social dynamics.
Clingy reeks of desperation, neediness.
Yet, you can still spend a lot of time and be void of that feeling of neediness.
I hope you get the idea.
I literally spend time with my girl everyday -- we live together -- yet I still balance my own personal life with pleasure when she's around.
I do my work, while she does hers. All this takes place inside the same room.
It comes down to the social dynamics.
DJ Miquelo
Don Juan
In my experience thru observing certain ppl i know, i have found that ugly girls now and again enjoy a clingy guy. Perhaps thats because she needs affection cos she hasnt had much in her life etc etc. So yeah id say that certain girls do like clingy guys! (however these are the undesirables 
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)"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
They happen, but they don't last.