"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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do girls like clingy guys?

Err0r

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I know most girls dont like this at all, but my friend hooked up with this chick he just met and he would bend over back for her and text her all the time and spends all time with her. Something like that to me would make me think the girl would run away but guess not. You guys think there are girls out there that actually like the clingy nice guy?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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KontrollerX

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Like attracts like.

Which means a clingy guy and a clingy girl would probably hit it off and enjoy smothering eachother with their mutual clinginess.
 

horaholic

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Nope. Whoever is less clingy is the one who will eventually get turned off, and cheat/break up.
 

Allurre

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Being clingy, and spending a lot of time together is different.

Clingy reeks of desperation, neediness.

Yet, you can still spend a lot of time and be void of that feeling of neediness.

I hope you get the idea.

I literally spend time with my girl everyday -- we live together -- yet I still balance my own personal life with pleasure when she's around.

I do my work, while she does hers. All this takes place inside the same room.

It comes down to the social dynamics.
 

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In my experience thru observing certain ppl i know, i have found that ugly girls now and again enjoy a clingy guy. Perhaps thats because she needs affection cos she hasnt had much in her life etc etc. So yeah id say that certain girls do like clingy guys! (however these are the undesirables ;))
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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