"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do girls like clingy guys?

Err0r

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I know most girls dont like this at all, but my friend hooked up with this chick he just met and he would bend over back for her and text her all the time and spends all time with her. Something like that to me would make me think the girl would run away but guess not. You guys think there are girls out there that actually like the clingy nice guy?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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KontrollerX

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Like attracts like.

Which means a clingy guy and a clingy girl would probably hit it off and enjoy smothering eachother with their mutual clinginess.
 

horaholic

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Nope. Whoever is less clingy is the one who will eventually get turned off, and cheat/break up.
 

Allurre

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Being clingy, and spending a lot of time together is different.

Clingy reeks of desperation, neediness.

Yet, you can still spend a lot of time and be void of that feeling of neediness.

I hope you get the idea.

I literally spend time with my girl everyday -- we live together -- yet I still balance my own personal life with pleasure when she's around.

I do my work, while she does hers. All this takes place inside the same room.

It comes down to the social dynamics.
 

DJ Miquelo

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In my experience thru observing certain ppl i know, i have found that ugly girls now and again enjoy a clingy guy. Perhaps thats because she needs affection cos she hasnt had much in her life etc etc. So yeah id say that certain girls do like clingy guys! (however these are the undesirables ;))
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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