Dhoulmagus
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I stopped doing that because nothing good ever came out of trying to be a decent gentleman to them, but I hear them complaint about being used all the time.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Do girls get mad when you don't bother to contact them after sex
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think it depends on the interaction. In my experience, if we're dating, or she's a consistent plate, contact after sex is bound to happen at some point. If it's just a ONS-type interaction, I think that both parties know what they're getting themselves into (both adults, responsible for actions, etc), so there's no reason or justification for feeling "used". She coulda just kept her legs closed. Don't ever feel the need to contact them for the sake of being a gentleman. They knew what this was.
Dhoulmagus
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than how do people get gfs and fvck buddies