Dhoulmagus
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I stopped doing that because nothing good ever came out of trying to be a decent gentleman to them, but I hear them complaint about being used all the time.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do girls get mad when you don't bother to contact them after sex
- Thread starter Dhoulmagus
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think it depends on the interaction. In my experience, if we're dating, or she's a consistent plate, contact after sex is bound to happen at some point. If it's just a ONS-type interaction, I think that both parties know what they're getting themselves into (both adults, responsible for actions, etc), so there's no reason or justification for feeling "used". She coulda just kept her legs closed. Don't ever feel the need to contact them for the sake of being a gentleman. They knew what this was.
Dhoulmagus
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than how do people get gfs and fvck buddies