Dhoulmagus
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I stopped doing that because nothing good ever came out of trying to be a decent gentleman to them, but I hear them complaint about being used all the time.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Do girls get mad when you don't bother to contact them after sex
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I think it depends on the interaction. In my experience, if we're dating, or she's a consistent plate, contact after sex is bound to happen at some point. If it's just a ONS-type interaction, I think that both parties know what they're getting themselves into (both adults, responsible for actions, etc), so there's no reason or justification for feeling "used". She coulda just kept her legs closed. Don't ever feel the need to contact them for the sake of being a gentleman. They knew what this was.
Dhoulmagus
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than how do people get gfs and fvck buddies