Dhoulmagus
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I stopped doing that because nothing good ever came out of trying to be a decent gentleman to them, but I hear them complaint about being used all the time.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Do girls get mad when you don't bother to contact them after sex
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I think it depends on the interaction. In my experience, if we're dating, or she's a consistent plate, contact after sex is bound to happen at some point. If it's just a ONS-type interaction, I think that both parties know what they're getting themselves into (both adults, responsible for actions, etc), so there's no reason or justification for feeling "used". She coulda just kept her legs closed. Don't ever feel the need to contact them for the sake of being a gentleman. They knew what this was.
Dhoulmagus
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than how do people get gfs and fvck buddies