She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
There is a bigger statistic chance that more women will like you if you bulk up. A girl told me that the taste is different among all the people and therfore your looks doesn't matter. I countered with showing her two pictures:Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
thats like asking what do you like more apples or bannanas? susuages or burgers? the colour blue or red? its simply differs from person to person.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I don't believe this....all the huge pros I've come across get so much ***** you wouldn't even believe. I'm talking 8 and 9's. You gotta remember that those pros don't look nearly as ridiculous when they arent oiled up and flexing (as well as severely cut). As to low body fat....you gotta be kidding. Girls go ****ing nuts over "cut" guys if they are muscular....show girls some abs, and they are practically pulling off their underwear. Not all of them, obviously, but I would say a majority. Any one of the guys I know at the gym could pull mr. skinnies chick from him, no matter how much game hes got. Most of these guys have girls coming to them....no joke. In the past couple of months even I have had girls approach me (and I'm not super huge, but definitly getting bulkier), which has never happened to me before. I don't take them up on it because I have a really hot long term gf. Shes a plant developmental geneticist....love me some smart girl.Originally posted by sfalexi
The girls I've talked to like guys who are fit, but don't like guys who have very low body fat. They like a big guy, but they want something slightly soft (I'm assuming somewhere around 10% body fat instead of 6 or 7). They also don't like guys to look like they are IFBB pros (professional bodybuilding). They say that looks ridiculous.
Alexi
Originally posted by Pancho
Its so easy...an hour or two a day and your life completely changes around. You feel better, you look better, and your treated better. If your skinny, hit the gym.
Originally posted by Pancho
an hour or two a day and your life completely changes around. You feel better, you look better
Originally posted by Pancho
You feel better