I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
There is a bigger statistic chance that more women will like you if you bulk up. A girl told me that the taste is different among all the people and therfore your looks doesn't matter. I countered with showing her two pictures:Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
thats like asking what do you like more apples or bannanas? susuages or burgers? the colour blue or red? its simply differs from person to person.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't believe this....all the huge pros I've come across get so much ***** you wouldn't even believe. I'm talking 8 and 9's. You gotta remember that those pros don't look nearly as ridiculous when they arent oiled up and flexing (as well as severely cut). As to low body fat....you gotta be kidding. Girls go ****ing nuts over "cut" guys if they are muscular....show girls some abs, and they are practically pulling off their underwear. Not all of them, obviously, but I would say a majority. Any one of the guys I know at the gym could pull mr. skinnies chick from him, no matter how much game hes got. Most of these guys have girls coming to them....no joke. In the past couple of months even I have had girls approach me (and I'm not super huge, but definitly getting bulkier), which has never happened to me before. I don't take them up on it because I have a really hot long term gf. Shes a plant developmental geneticist....love me some smart girl.Originally posted by sfalexi
The girls I've talked to like guys who are fit, but don't like guys who have very low body fat. They like a big guy, but they want something slightly soft (I'm assuming somewhere around 10% body fat instead of 6 or 7). They also don't like guys to look like they are IFBB pros (professional bodybuilding). They say that looks ridiculous.
Alexi
Originally posted by Pancho
Its so easy...an hour or two a day and your life completely changes around. You feel better, you look better, and your treated better. If your skinny, hit the gym.
Originally posted by Pancho
an hour or two a day and your life completely changes around. You feel better, you look better
Originally posted by Pancho
You feel better