You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
There is a bigger statistic chance that more women will like you if you bulk up. A girl told me that the taste is different among all the people and therfore your looks doesn't matter. I countered with showing her two pictures:Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
thats like asking what do you like more apples or bannanas? susuages or burgers? the colour blue or red? its simply differs from person to person.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I don't believe this....all the huge pros I've come across get so much ***** you wouldn't even believe. I'm talking 8 and 9's. You gotta remember that those pros don't look nearly as ridiculous when they arent oiled up and flexing (as well as severely cut). As to low body fat....you gotta be kidding. Girls go ****ing nuts over "cut" guys if they are muscular....show girls some abs, and they are practically pulling off their underwear. Not all of them, obviously, but I would say a majority. Any one of the guys I know at the gym could pull mr. skinnies chick from him, no matter how much game hes got. Most of these guys have girls coming to them....no joke. In the past couple of months even I have had girls approach me (and I'm not super huge, but definitly getting bulkier), which has never happened to me before. I don't take them up on it because I have a really hot long term gf. Shes a plant developmental geneticist....love me some smart girl.Originally posted by sfalexi
The girls I've talked to like guys who are fit, but don't like guys who have very low body fat. They like a big guy, but they want something slightly soft (I'm assuming somewhere around 10% body fat instead of 6 or 7). They also don't like guys to look like they are IFBB pros (professional bodybuilding). They say that looks ridiculous.
Alexi
Originally posted by Pancho
Its so easy...an hour or two a day and your life completely changes around. You feel better, you look better, and your treated better. If your skinny, hit the gym.
Originally posted by Pancho
an hour or two a day and your life completely changes around. You feel better, you look better
Originally posted by Pancho
You feel better