You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yep, sex inflation via manipulation …The price will keep going up.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Exactly. I chased this girl for months one time, finally spent some cash on her and she put out. She sucks me off and ****s me in the bathrooms of five star restaurants.
I would. Fastest way to the promised land.
The top players in here don’t need to. They just “exist” and the hot young girls feel privileged to get the sex from them.
Rock on!
You say you chased her for months with no progress, but when you threw cash at her she came around. If sex is the ultimate victory for you, then ok you won, but can you honestly not see why we aren't encouraging you to do this?Exactly. I chased this girl for months one time, finally spent some cash on her and she put out. She sucks me off and ****s me in the bathrooms of five star restaurants.
She wanted $1000 wallet for her birthday. I said no and she threw a fit. But still ****s me anyways.
The last girl I was with I spent a lot of cash taking her on trips with me the first month we dated, then got cheap as hell. Made her split the tab every time we went out the last year of the relationship. She still dates me for years.
These have been by real world examples. alot of guys here are going by logic. But In the real world, from what I’ve seen, spending cash on girls works.
Yea, but there's levels to itI think we have to be a little bit real here guys sooner or later you always pay. Well at least if you earn more than her. If you're being generous that's one thing that's your call as a man. Some guys do some guys. It's when she demands it I get the sh1ts.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Did you really just use Jeffrey Epstein as an example... Ok I'm done with this thread lolIt all depends on how rich you are and what dropping $500 feels like. If it's a drop in the bucket, fine. But even billionaire Jeffrey Epstein was paying chicks just $200 quid pro quo for massages and sex.
He was drunk off the PROMISE AND HOPE of her PUZZY.Come clean, how drunk were you to spend $500 on that girl?