"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do females ever grow up?

Dash Riprock

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Not sure. When I find it, I will know it.
That's easy and it should be every man's goal, especially DJ's: To be the BEST me I can possibly be. You look yourself in the mirror each night and ask yourself, "How did I get better today?" We can't get better every day because we are human, make mistakes, and have setbacks. BUT, the key is to get get better most days and overall try to improve by 1% each day. After one year, you have improved by 365% at a minimum, because with this as in finance there is also compound interest: The better you get, the better you want to get.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's easy and it should be every man's goal, especially DJ's: To be the BEST me I can possibly be. You look yourself in the mirror each night and ask yourself, "How did I get better today?" We can't get better every day because we are human, make mistakes, and have setbacks. BUT, the key is to get get better most days and overall try to improve by 1% each day. After one year, you have improved by 365% at a minimum, because with this as in finance there is also compound interest: The better you get, the better you want to get.
I'm already the sh!t in just about everything I do. Can't improve on perfection. I always strive for excellence in everything I do.
 
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