"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do females ever grow up?

Dash Riprock

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Not sure. When I find it, I will know it.
That's easy and it should be every man's goal, especially DJ's: To be the BEST me I can possibly be. You look yourself in the mirror each night and ask yourself, "How did I get better today?" We can't get better every day because we are human, make mistakes, and have setbacks. BUT, the key is to get get better most days and overall try to improve by 1% each day. After one year, you have improved by 365% at a minimum, because with this as in finance there is also compound interest: The better you get, the better you want to get.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's easy and it should be every man's goal, especially DJ's: To be the BEST me I can possibly be. You look yourself in the mirror each night and ask yourself, "How did I get better today?" We can't get better every day because we are human, make mistakes, and have setbacks. BUT, the key is to get get better most days and overall try to improve by 1% each day. After one year, you have improved by 365% at a minimum, because with this as in finance there is also compound interest: The better you get, the better you want to get.
I'm already the sh!t in just about everything I do. Can't improve on perfection. I always strive for excellence in everything I do.
 
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