So I'm on the bus and this stupid dude who has his feet in the aile says "You stepped on my shoes! Faggot!" and in front of a bunch of girls too. I just didn't say sh*t but I'm wondering if that was the right thing to do. After all, if I didn't say sh*t wouldn't that make me a f*cking p*ssy? I'm a bit confused on this. But if I try and joke on his ass I could humilate him, but that would make me look like the bad guy. Plus his ass shouldn't have even had his feet in the freaking aile in the first place. So do DJ's respond to stupid sh*t like this? After all this dude is pretty much a loser who thinks he's cool anyway.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Do DJ's respond to stupid sh*t?
- Thread starter ElStud
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'd go with a genuine, condesending but sort of effortless chuckle making eye contact with a couple of people around him. Doing that, will let him and everyone else know that you are above even being offended by his rudeness, and the others will inherently side with you and pity him.
You do want to do something though. Ignoring it is not your worst move, but not a good one either (overreacting would be the worst move). There are times when you're obligated to stand up for yourself in some manner.
You do want to do something though. Ignoring it is not your worst move, but not a good one either (overreacting would be the worst move). There are times when you're obligated to stand up for yourself in some manner.
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
Tell him maybe if he sat like a "big boy" and had his feet where they were supossed to be, they wouldn't have gotten stepped on. (Smiling in a sarcastic tone)
Or just look at him, smile, and say "Cry about it" and keep walking.
Just don't loose your cool..ever.
Or just look at him, smile, and say "Cry about it" and keep walking.
Just don't loose your cool..ever.
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Tell him to call the cops. 
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Depends on what kind of person he is - You do NOT want to be starting trouble. He could have been having a bad day. Also, if he is three times your size, I would NOT recommend being sarcastic/witty with him. Tell him to calm down.
However, if it is a guy that you know from school, relatively your size, and he continuously does this to you.. than I would do exactly what Themanthatcan recommended.
However, if it is a guy that you know from school, relatively your size, and he continuously does this to you.. than I would do exactly what Themanthatcan recommended.
never tolerate disrespect. have a good arsenal of witty and biting comments. i don't care if he is bigger than me, i will humiliate him because once he lays his hands on me i will lay a lawsuit on his ass and family's ass so fast he'll be begging for my change. and i will remind him of this before he has the change to raise a fist so the fvcker knows who and what he is dealing with.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Be like, "Hey hey calm down...everything is gonna be okay, I promise."
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.