So I'm on the bus and this stupid dude who has his feet in the aile says "You stepped on my shoes! Faggot!" and in front of a bunch of girls too. I just didn't say sh*t but I'm wondering if that was the right thing to do. After all, if I didn't say sh*t wouldn't that make me a f*cking p*ssy? I'm a bit confused on this. But if I try and joke on his ass I could humilate him, but that would make me look like the bad guy. Plus his ass shouldn't have even had his feet in the freaking aile in the first place. So do DJ's respond to stupid sh*t like this? After all this dude is pretty much a loser who thinks he's cool anyway.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Do DJ's respond to stupid sh*t?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'd go with a genuine, condesending but sort of effortless chuckle making eye contact with a couple of people around him. Doing that, will let him and everyone else know that you are above even being offended by his rudeness, and the others will inherently side with you and pity him.
You do want to do something though. Ignoring it is not your worst move, but not a good one either (overreacting would be the worst move). There are times when you're obligated to stand up for yourself in some manner.
You do want to do something though. Ignoring it is not your worst move, but not a good one either (overreacting would be the worst move). There are times when you're obligated to stand up for yourself in some manner.
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
Tell him maybe if he sat like a "big boy" and had his feet where they were supossed to be, they wouldn't have gotten stepped on. (Smiling in a sarcastic tone)
Or just look at him, smile, and say "Cry about it" and keep walking.
Just don't loose your cool..ever.
Or just look at him, smile, and say "Cry about it" and keep walking.
Just don't loose your cool..ever.
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Tell him to call the cops. 
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Depends on what kind of person he is - You do NOT want to be starting trouble. He could have been having a bad day. Also, if he is three times your size, I would NOT recommend being sarcastic/witty with him. Tell him to calm down.
However, if it is a guy that you know from school, relatively your size, and he continuously does this to you.. than I would do exactly what Themanthatcan recommended.
However, if it is a guy that you know from school, relatively your size, and he continuously does this to you.. than I would do exactly what Themanthatcan recommended.
never tolerate disrespect. have a good arsenal of witty and biting comments. i don't care if he is bigger than me, i will humiliate him because once he lays his hands on me i will lay a lawsuit on his ass and family's ass so fast he'll be begging for my change. and i will remind him of this before he has the change to raise a fist so the fvcker knows who and what he is dealing with.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Be like, "Hey hey calm down...everything is gonna be okay, I promise."
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.