So I'm on the bus and this stupid dude who has his feet in the aile says "You stepped on my shoes! Faggot!" and in front of a bunch of girls too. I just didn't say sh*t but I'm wondering if that was the right thing to do. After all, if I didn't say sh*t wouldn't that make me a f*cking p*ssy? I'm a bit confused on this. But if I try and joke on his ass I could humilate him, but that would make me look like the bad guy. Plus his ass shouldn't have even had his feet in the freaking aile in the first place. So do DJ's respond to stupid sh*t like this? After all this dude is pretty much a loser who thinks he's cool anyway.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Do DJ's respond to stupid sh*t?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'd go with a genuine, condesending but sort of effortless chuckle making eye contact with a couple of people around him. Doing that, will let him and everyone else know that you are above even being offended by his rudeness, and the others will inherently side with you and pity him.
You do want to do something though. Ignoring it is not your worst move, but not a good one either (overreacting would be the worst move). There are times when you're obligated to stand up for yourself in some manner.
You do want to do something though. Ignoring it is not your worst move, but not a good one either (overreacting would be the worst move). There are times when you're obligated to stand up for yourself in some manner.
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
Tell him maybe if he sat like a "big boy" and had his feet where they were supossed to be, they wouldn't have gotten stepped on. (Smiling in a sarcastic tone)
Or just look at him, smile, and say "Cry about it" and keep walking.
Just don't loose your cool..ever.
Or just look at him, smile, and say "Cry about it" and keep walking.
Just don't loose your cool..ever.
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Tell him to call the cops. 
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Depends on what kind of person he is - You do NOT want to be starting trouble. He could have been having a bad day. Also, if he is three times your size, I would NOT recommend being sarcastic/witty with him. Tell him to calm down.
However, if it is a guy that you know from school, relatively your size, and he continuously does this to you.. than I would do exactly what Themanthatcan recommended.
However, if it is a guy that you know from school, relatively your size, and he continuously does this to you.. than I would do exactly what Themanthatcan recommended.
never tolerate disrespect. have a good arsenal of witty and biting comments. i don't care if he is bigger than me, i will humiliate him because once he lays his hands on me i will lay a lawsuit on his ass and family's ass so fast he'll be begging for my change. and i will remind him of this before he has the change to raise a fist so the fvcker knows who and what he is dealing with.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Be like, "Hey hey calm down...everything is gonna be okay, I promise."
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.