"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do dj's homewreck?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes they do. Still it takes two. Expecting a woman not to have a side guy now and then is asking a lot.
 
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Do djs homewreck in your opinion? If you knew a woman was married would you still chase her?
This will be interesting. :oops:
Depends on your point of view, what you, yourself, consider to be right and wrong. That’s a matter of your own viewpoint. Right or wrong, the consequences would be yours.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do djs homewreck in your opinion? If you knew a woman was married would you still chase her?
This will be interesting. :oops:
Personally, of course not. Would be way more trouble than it was worth even if it was only sex. There are plenty of other, non-married options available that would offer far less drama.
 

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Do djs homewreck in your opinion? If you knew a woman was married would you still chase her?
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I have had romances with married women. In my experience, they have approached me.

I take my time to get to know her to an extend, then I am spending time with her after work. I begin by taking her out to lunch. I don't pay for her meals in the beginning, but when we hook up, I pay the bill because the hubby can't see the charges to her credit.
*******s and French kissing in the back of my truck, renting an SUV to fvxk in parking lot of mall.
I don't approach women who are not interested in me...... So I dont know what you mean by chasing married women...

There was this married chick that was chasing me and now she is not interested at all. She is currently going separation because husband was caught up abusing the child. I dont know if she met a new dyck or is just not interested in me any more.
I don't chase any women, that is futile. I just bang them when they want me to.
I hope to reconnect with the girl after her divorce is finalized or before, she has my number, but I believe I will be bagged before....
 
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lmao,

I don't do that. Not worth it, even if you think you can get away with it.
 

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