"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do DJ skills work the same on more shy, introverted types?

DharmaBear

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Just wondering. I'm finding that being c/f, using neg-hits, etc. work great on the real social types, but not so much on the ones who are tough to crack and aren't as social.

Can anyone share some experiences here? Should I tone it down with these types?


-Dharma
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tha Realnezz

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From what I see nothing works on those girls,they're just lame & chose to come out their shells when they feel like it.

I don't bother with them..
 

The Forms

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Tha Realnezz said:
From what I see nothing works on those girls,they're just lame & chose to come out their shells when they feel like it.

I don't bother with them..

are you serious? No way. They want to come out of their shells, they just need you to entice them out. Look, you have to game every girl differently, because every girl is different. Shy/unconfident girls need a lot of fluff talk to get comfortable. They need to get used to just talking to you. Like with all other girls, find out something that they are REALLY into and get them talking about it. Act like you're interested (if you're not already).

These girls, you can't really use neg hits on, but a little bit of c+f can still be ok. Just don't draw attention to them in any negative way (like you do with negs).

You just have to be slower and more gentle generally with this type of girl. I spend a little more time just talking to them, and keep the kino pretty light (I dont' have my arm around her in 5 minutes).

Once they're comfortable, it's business as usual.
 

KneghtRyder

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The Forms said:
Like with all other girls, find out something that they are REALLY into and get them talking about it. Act like you're interested (if you're not already).
Once they're comfortable, it's business as usual.
like he said
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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