"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do DJ skills work the same on more shy, introverted types?

DharmaBear

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Just wondering. I'm finding that being c/f, using neg-hits, etc. work great on the real social types, but not so much on the ones who are tough to crack and aren't as social.

Can anyone share some experiences here? Should I tone it down with these types?


-Dharma
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tha Realnezz

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From what I see nothing works on those girls,they're just lame & chose to come out their shells when they feel like it.

I don't bother with them..
 

The Forms

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Tha Realnezz said:
From what I see nothing works on those girls,they're just lame & chose to come out their shells when they feel like it.

I don't bother with them..

are you serious? No way. They want to come out of their shells, they just need you to entice them out. Look, you have to game every girl differently, because every girl is different. Shy/unconfident girls need a lot of fluff talk to get comfortable. They need to get used to just talking to you. Like with all other girls, find out something that they are REALLY into and get them talking about it. Act like you're interested (if you're not already).

These girls, you can't really use neg hits on, but a little bit of c+f can still be ok. Just don't draw attention to them in any negative way (like you do with negs).

You just have to be slower and more gentle generally with this type of girl. I spend a little more time just talking to them, and keep the kino pretty light (I dont' have my arm around her in 5 minutes).

Once they're comfortable, it's business as usual.
 

KneghtRyder

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The Forms said:
Like with all other girls, find out something that they are REALLY into and get them talking about it. Act like you're interested (if you're not already).
Once they're comfortable, it's business as usual.
like he said
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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