Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do DJ skills work the same on more shy, introverted types?

DharmaBear

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Just wondering. I'm finding that being c/f, using neg-hits, etc. work great on the real social types, but not so much on the ones who are tough to crack and aren't as social.

Can anyone share some experiences here? Should I tone it down with these types?


-Dharma
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tha Realnezz

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From what I see nothing works on those girls,they're just lame & chose to come out their shells when they feel like it.

I don't bother with them..
 

The Forms

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Tha Realnezz said:
From what I see nothing works on those girls,they're just lame & chose to come out their shells when they feel like it.

I don't bother with them..

are you serious? No way. They want to come out of their shells, they just need you to entice them out. Look, you have to game every girl differently, because every girl is different. Shy/unconfident girls need a lot of fluff talk to get comfortable. They need to get used to just talking to you. Like with all other girls, find out something that they are REALLY into and get them talking about it. Act like you're interested (if you're not already).

These girls, you can't really use neg hits on, but a little bit of c+f can still be ok. Just don't draw attention to them in any negative way (like you do with negs).

You just have to be slower and more gentle generally with this type of girl. I spend a little more time just talking to them, and keep the kino pretty light (I dont' have my arm around her in 5 minutes).

Once they're comfortable, it's business as usual.
 

KneghtRyder

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The Forms said:
Like with all other girls, find out something that they are REALLY into and get them talking about it. Act like you're interested (if you're not already).
Once they're comfortable, it's business as usual.
like he said
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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