"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do DJ get jealous?

DonJuan11

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I'm sure we've all been in this situation before, but do Don Juans get jealous? Is jealously a good thing? Example: a girl you like mentions a "co-worker" (doesn't specify sex) that she has shopped with a few times and gets really excited with the co-worker. Do we ask about the coworker or just blow it off? What if its a guy who's just trying to get into her pants?

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Bond: "My dear girl don't flatter yourself. What I did this evening was for king and country. You don't think it gave me any pleasure do you?"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DonJuan11 said:
I'm sure we've all been in this situation before, but do Don Juans get jealous? Is jealously a good thing? Example: a girl you like mentions a "co-worker" (doesn't specify sex) that she has shopped with a few times and gets really excited with the co-worker. Do we ask about the coworker or just blow it off?
What you described here is anti-DJ, You are having oneitis for a girl you never went out on a date with and your lack of other options is clearly evident here.

DonJuan11 said:
What if its a guy who's just trying to get into her pants?
Unless he is gay, he probably is like every guy out there trying to get some. Don't worry about him, start worrying about you, your perception of the world and your place in it.
 

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DonJuan11 said:
I'm sure we've all been in this situation before, but do Don Juans get jealous? Is jealously a good thing? Example: a girl you like mentions a "co-worker" (doesn't specify sex) that she has shopped with a few times and gets really excited with the co-worker. Do we ask about the coworker or just blow it off? What if its a guy who's just trying to get into her pants?
There's nothing wrong with feeling a little jealous. The only difference between an AFC and DJ, is that the AFC can't keep it under control. You just play it cool. And keep gaming her. Don't worry too much about the co-worker. He's probably just a friend if he's going shopping with her. She may get excited hanging out with him just like she get excited hanging out with her girlfriends, doesn't neccessarily means she's sexually interested in him.
 

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LOL this is funny... because when a girl talks about someone else that she may be seeing.. i kinda give them a nudge and say "hey u know wat. u should hang out with that one dude this weekend" this just shocks the sh!t out of most girls. love it. do it. its golden.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sounds like a girl or a gay guy if they're shopping together. If you are already jealous then it's unfounded. Ultimately we should get to the point where we dont get jealous anymore because we truly arent phased by women for any reason.
 
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