"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do DJ get jealous?

DonJuan11

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I'm sure we've all been in this situation before, but do Don Juans get jealous? Is jealously a good thing? Example: a girl you like mentions a "co-worker" (doesn't specify sex) that she has shopped with a few times and gets really excited with the co-worker. Do we ask about the coworker or just blow it off? What if its a guy who's just trying to get into her pants?

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Bond: "My dear girl don't flatter yourself. What I did this evening was for king and country. You don't think it gave me any pleasure do you?"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuan11 said:
I'm sure we've all been in this situation before, but do Don Juans get jealous? Is jealously a good thing? Example: a girl you like mentions a "co-worker" (doesn't specify sex) that she has shopped with a few times and gets really excited with the co-worker. Do we ask about the coworker or just blow it off?
What you described here is anti-DJ, You are having oneitis for a girl you never went out on a date with and your lack of other options is clearly evident here.

DonJuan11 said:
What if its a guy who's just trying to get into her pants?
Unless he is gay, he probably is like every guy out there trying to get some. Don't worry about him, start worrying about you, your perception of the world and your place in it.
 

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DonJuan11 said:
I'm sure we've all been in this situation before, but do Don Juans get jealous? Is jealously a good thing? Example: a girl you like mentions a "co-worker" (doesn't specify sex) that she has shopped with a few times and gets really excited with the co-worker. Do we ask about the coworker or just blow it off? What if its a guy who's just trying to get into her pants?
There's nothing wrong with feeling a little jealous. The only difference between an AFC and DJ, is that the AFC can't keep it under control. You just play it cool. And keep gaming her. Don't worry too much about the co-worker. He's probably just a friend if he's going shopping with her. She may get excited hanging out with him just like she get excited hanging out with her girlfriends, doesn't neccessarily means she's sexually interested in him.
 

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LOL this is funny... because when a girl talks about someone else that she may be seeing.. i kinda give them a nudge and say "hey u know wat. u should hang out with that one dude this weekend" this just shocks the sh!t out of most girls. love it. do it. its golden.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sounds like a girl or a gay guy if they're shopping together. If you are already jealous then it's unfounded. Ultimately we should get to the point where we dont get jealous anymore because we truly arent phased by women for any reason.
 
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