"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do DJ get jealous?

DonJuan11

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I'm sure we've all been in this situation before, but do Don Juans get jealous? Is jealously a good thing? Example: a girl you like mentions a "co-worker" (doesn't specify sex) that she has shopped with a few times and gets really excited with the co-worker. Do we ask about the coworker or just blow it off? What if its a guy who's just trying to get into her pants?

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Bond: "My dear girl don't flatter yourself. What I did this evening was for king and country. You don't think it gave me any pleasure do you?"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonJuan11 said:
I'm sure we've all been in this situation before, but do Don Juans get jealous? Is jealously a good thing? Example: a girl you like mentions a "co-worker" (doesn't specify sex) that she has shopped with a few times and gets really excited with the co-worker. Do we ask about the coworker or just blow it off?
What you described here is anti-DJ, You are having oneitis for a girl you never went out on a date with and your lack of other options is clearly evident here.

DonJuan11 said:
What if its a guy who's just trying to get into her pants?
Unless he is gay, he probably is like every guy out there trying to get some. Don't worry about him, start worrying about you, your perception of the world and your place in it.
 

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DonJuan11 said:
I'm sure we've all been in this situation before, but do Don Juans get jealous? Is jealously a good thing? Example: a girl you like mentions a "co-worker" (doesn't specify sex) that she has shopped with a few times and gets really excited with the co-worker. Do we ask about the coworker or just blow it off? What if its a guy who's just trying to get into her pants?
There's nothing wrong with feeling a little jealous. The only difference between an AFC and DJ, is that the AFC can't keep it under control. You just play it cool. And keep gaming her. Don't worry too much about the co-worker. He's probably just a friend if he's going shopping with her. She may get excited hanging out with him just like she get excited hanging out with her girlfriends, doesn't neccessarily means she's sexually interested in him.
 

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LOL this is funny... because when a girl talks about someone else that she may be seeing.. i kinda give them a nudge and say "hey u know wat. u should hang out with that one dude this weekend" this just shocks the sh!t out of most girls. love it. do it. its golden.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sounds like a girl or a gay guy if they're shopping together. If you are already jealous then it's unfounded. Ultimately we should get to the point where we dont get jealous anymore because we truly arent phased by women for any reason.
 
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