"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do crazy girls get worse with age?

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Good Stuff - thank you guys

some key points-
becoming crazy cat ladies. This is for real and there are a few living near me. I’m sure these legitimately crazy old ladies were at one time relatively attractive young girls trying to act normal.

family/child issues- didn’t think of it but sadly 4 of the 5 hot/crazy had a parent die while they were young. I’m sure there are plenty of people who also had a parent die/leave and are fine but imagine these girls a little off and lack of a parent/grieving added to their condition.

series of failed pump/dump- I mentioned divorce, single mom, fading looks, etc. But failed relationships has got to damage them too. All of these girls a had tons of boyfriends from age 16-30 and they all failed. There is a study somewhere the more partners you have, the less likely you are to stay married later.

thx guys- stay away from crazy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Only an alpha who's been off banging woman for years, now ready to settle down will be able to tame her. All the ones in the middle and below have been paired. It's the hierarchy of Jackdaws though we are not Jackdaws. A #1 alpha can't take the #2, #3 and onward's mate. He must search all the way down to the bottom, thus crazies or known ostracized ones, because he as well flew off early on forgoing pairing up in lieu of having fun.
 
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Just discussing the hot/crazy girls from my HS with my guy friends from high school. Interesting, all of them single/divorced despite being 10’s.
The conversation noted they are getting worse mentally. Girls that were just sorta relationship crazy, clingy, a little weird from age 16-30.... digressed into barely functional “bat ****” crazy by age 35.
i imagine divorce, single mom, declining SMV are all factors. Plus they each started to surround themselves with crazy (think Yoga camps, drunks, super religious, Vegan PETA people, etc)

my question- in your experience, do crazy girls get crazier?

Is this biology that it gets worse or just life hitting them and post wall life

thx
They are all crazy and it gets worse with age without exception.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The short answer is yes. But like some alluded to it’s not limited to women.

The narcissist thing is on point. Ageing affects us all, men and women, and a narcissistic person worsens over time because their allure slips and keeping up the facade is more difficult.

In women this is along the looks spectrum...in men it is the looks spectrum for those who rely heavily on looks but it’s also the performance spectrum.

It’s tough on a man not to have the same virility he once had. Even with the pills available it’s still requiring help...and that injures the ego of the male narcissist (never mind whiskey d1ck etc.). So age goes badly on the narcissist of either gender. They react with anger and drama seeking behavior.

The best thing to do is self reflection, self awareness and keeping a healthy lifestyle and outlook. We are all going to age. Might as well do it gracefully.

So my recommendation is to screen for women with the positive attitudes and outlooks. They will be happier and emotionally stable. Happier emotionally stable people age better anyway.

Cheers
 

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The short answer is yes. But like some alluded to it’s not limited to women.

The narcissist thing is on point. Ageing affects us all, men and women, and a narcissistic person worsens over time because their allure slips and keeping up the facade is more difficult.

In women this is along the looks spectrum...in men it is the looks spectrum for those who rely heavily on looks but it’s also the performance spectrum.

It’s tough on a man not to have the same virility he once had. Even with the pills available it’s still requiring help...and that injures the ego of the male narcissist (never mind whiskey d1ck etc.). So age goes badly on the narcissist of either gender. They react with anger and drama seeking behavior.

The best thing to do is self reflection, self awareness and keeping a healthy lifestyle and outlook. We are all going to age. Might as well do it gracefully.

So my recommendation is to screen for women with the positive attitudes and outlooks. They will be happier and emotionally stable. Happier emotionally stable people age better anyway.

Cheers
Having a bad partner who withholds sex and treats you badly will cause a decrease in virility. She's literally programming you that way. As we get older it's important to pair with people who like and appreciate many of the things that are important to us.
 

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Having a bad partner who withholds sex and treats you badly will cause a decrease in virility. She's literally programming you that way. As we get older it's important to pair with people who like and appreciate many of the things that are important to us.
Agreed 100%
 

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Just discussing the hot/crazy girls from my HS with my guy friends from high school. Interesting, all of them single/divorced despite being 10’s.
The conversation noted they are getting worse mentally. Girls that were just sorta relationship crazy, clingy, a little weird from age 16-30.... digressed into barely functional “bat ****” crazy by age 35.
i imagine divorce, single mom, declining SMV are all factors. Plus they each started to surround themselves with crazy (think Yoga camps, drunks, super religious, Vegan PETA people, etc)

my question- in your experience, do crazy girls get crazier?

Is this biology that it gets worse or just life hitting them and post wall life

thx
I knew a crazy Italian girl that was just out of university. We had some good times back in the day. Years later, I got back in contact with her and meet her in her city in Italy.. and she was now a totally normal person, but she had lost her looks.
 

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I knew a crazy Italian girl that was just out of university. We had some good times back in the day. Years later, I got back in contact with her and meet her in her city in Italy.. and she was now a totally normal person, but she had lost her looks.
I'm thinking she became "normal" after she lost her looks. Not having looks to define you will often strengthen other parts of you, like your mind or personality.

That's why ex-ugly duckling girls are the best ones to have around because they have already improved their mind/personality and blossomed later in life with looks. Best of both worlds. But these often get snatched up fast on the market so it's merely the luck of the draw and timing unfortunately.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just discussing the hot/crazy girls from my HS with my guy friends from high school. Interesting, all of them single/divorced despite being 10’s.
The conversation noted they are getting worse mentally. Girls that were just sorta relationship crazy, clingy, a little weird from age 16-30.... digressed into barely functional “bat ****” crazy by age 35.
i imagine divorce, single mom, declining SMV are all factors. Plus they each started to surround themselves with crazy (think Yoga camps, drunks, super religious, Vegan PETA people, etc)

my question- in your experience, do crazy girls get crazier?

Is this biology that it gets worse or just life hitting them and post wall life

thx
No. Women get better with age.

 

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At the very least they will become incredibly lame overall. Leading boring lives all by themselves. Burned out from work and failed relationship stress and their 60 glasses of wine (or more) a month ****ty habit. For most of them, this isn't a newfound pandemic lifestyle series of choices, but something that started many years prior. No pride or self-respect anymore, just regrets and resting dumb face. Do they work out ever? Likely not and it shows physically AND mentally. What about hobbies? Just television and wine. It's called playing victim to their past and living a soft azz life (fuc that).
 

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Having a bad partner who withholds sex and treats you badly will cause a decrease in virility. She's literally programming you that way. As we get older it's important to pair with people who like and appreciate many of the things that are important to us.
Wow
 

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Generally speaking, women Craziness increases, peeks out mid to late 30s, then decreases some in 40s and beyond. For the most part.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think women's mental health as a whole has gotten worse in general over the past decade or so with the rise in social media. I am in the medical field and never before in my life have I seen so many women (specifically ages 16-30) mark down anti anxiety and depression meds. To everyone's point - as women age and begin to realize their SMV, it doesn't help their egos being able to scroll through instagram and other apps seeing MORE attractive women their own age, or even worse, hotter AND younger.
 

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Generally speaking, women Craziness increases, peeks out mid to late 30s, then decreases some in 40s and beyond. For the most part.
I wonder if there is a correlation between craziness and smv? I know lower SMV can humble some people really fast once they hit that wall. But on the flipside, you have those stubborn and pig headed people that don't want to explore the other side and just become bitter, jaded, with 5 cats...
 

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If any person, male or female, has mental issues which are untreated, then yes, they will get worse with age. Psycho's do not normally wake up one morning and are sound minded individuals.
 

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I wonder if there is a correlation between craziness and smv? I know lower SMV can humble some people really fast once they hit that wall. But on the flipside, you have those stubborn and pig headed people that don't want to explore the other side and just become bitter, jaded, with 5 cats...
I think there is definately correlation between craziness and SMV. I think a lot goes on in their hamster heads in their 30s where they are fighting their lowering SMV but their ego won't let them surrender to the fact that they arent as hot as they once were. Then they hit 40 and realize that its a lost cause and betting a little better person will get them more out of life than being an egomanic cvnt
 

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Just discussing the hot/crazy girls from my HS with my guy friends from high school. Interesting, all of them single/divorced despite being 10’s.
The conversation noted they are getting worse mentally. Girls that were just sorta relationship crazy, clingy, a little weird from age 16-30.... digressed into barely functional “bat ****” crazy by age 35.
i imagine divorce, single mom, declining SMV are all factors. Plus they each started to surround themselves with crazy (think Yoga camps, drunks, super religious, Vegan PETA people, etc)

my question- in your experience, do crazy girls get crazier?

Is this biology that it gets worse or just life hitting them and post wall life

thx
women get crazier as they grow old and not having worthwhile in their life , or something to focus on

I would say that women go crazy , while guys grow soft

also the idea of fading beauty adds frustration to the woman , as like guys here mentioned the girls do not get as much attention as they had when they were younger

all of this is a ****tail Molotov
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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