"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do cool people(Who can pick up women) still exist?

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dragonsexpress

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I'm sorry, but I've given up all hope looking for a group of guys that are serious about there own self improvement on personal and a pick up women level.

It seems like all the guys in my area are not even AFCs.. They are all CHODES. And being around them, makes me feel like one too! Chodism is quite contagious at times.

So I'll be in NYC for the weekend. Do any of you guys that are experienced with the ****y and funny philosophy want to hook up?

But like my post implies, I dont think cool people exist, at least not in my world. So I get stuck with the town chodes around me all frikkin weekend.. And it's just not fun!

Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MrS

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Well me, obviously.

Yeah, today's world is crowded with AFCs, but that's life, noone perfect, and may very well think that the DJ/AFC point of view is bull****.

I suggest you post your search for NYC people in the Wingman forum.
 
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thederekeffect1

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dragonsexpress said:
Do any of you guys that are experienced with the ****y and funny philosophy want to hook up?
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... No. But do you have any friends that are girls? :)

J/K. I don't live in NY. Also, there's a board on this for this stuff.
 
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True. It is hard to find guys that are openminded about this stuff. Once you do find someone decent that you can train and go sarging with, odds are your success rate will soar.
 
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Yeah GuitarOnFire, I agree with you. I think the openmindedness of one willing to learn how to pick up women with others is without parallel.

Derekeffect, thanks for the suggestion. I'm a little desperate in looking for friends to go sarging with in the NY area. Do you know groups exist for good looking guys that like to go sarging? I just dont want to get stuck with AFCS.(Not to seem ****, I just want to learn with DJs.)

Anyways, the responses are great, and lets keep this thread going cuz maybe it'll help someone else that is desperate for some friends as well.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dragonsexpress said:
I'm sorry, but I've given up all hope looking for a group of guys that are serious about there own self improvement on personal and a pick up women level.

It seems like all the guys in my area are not even AFCs.. They are all CHODES. And being around them, makes me feel like one too! Chodism is quite contagious at times.

So I'll be in NYC for the weekend. Do any of you guys that are experienced with the ****y and funny philosophy want to hook up?

But like my post implies, I dont think cool people exist, at least not in my world. So I get stuck with the town chodes around me all frikkin weekend.. And it's just not fun!

Thanks
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99% of people are dorks. Don't depend on anyone for your success with women. Roll out solo if you have to.
 
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