"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do cool people(Who can pick up women) still exist?

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dragonsexpress

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I'm sorry, but I've given up all hope looking for a group of guys that are serious about there own self improvement on personal and a pick up women level.

It seems like all the guys in my area are not even AFCs.. They are all CHODES. And being around them, makes me feel like one too! Chodism is quite contagious at times.

So I'll be in NYC for the weekend. Do any of you guys that are experienced with the ****y and funny philosophy want to hook up?

But like my post implies, I dont think cool people exist, at least not in my world. So I get stuck with the town chodes around me all frikkin weekend.. And it's just not fun!

Thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well me, obviously.

Yeah, today's world is crowded with AFCs, but that's life, noone perfect, and may very well think that the DJ/AFC point of view is bull****.

I suggest you post your search for NYC people in the Wingman forum.
 
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dragonsexpress said:
Do any of you guys that are experienced with the ****y and funny philosophy want to hook up?
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... No. But do you have any friends that are girls? :)

J/K. I don't live in NY. Also, there's a board on this for this stuff.
 
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True. It is hard to find guys that are openminded about this stuff. Once you do find someone decent that you can train and go sarging with, odds are your success rate will soar.
 
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Yeah GuitarOnFire, I agree with you. I think the openmindedness of one willing to learn how to pick up women with others is without parallel.

Derekeffect, thanks for the suggestion. I'm a little desperate in looking for friends to go sarging with in the NY area. Do you know groups exist for good looking guys that like to go sarging? I just dont want to get stuck with AFCS.(Not to seem ****, I just want to learn with DJs.)

Anyways, the responses are great, and lets keep this thread going cuz maybe it'll help someone else that is desperate for some friends as well.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dragonsexpress said:
I'm sorry, but I've given up all hope looking for a group of guys that are serious about there own self improvement on personal and a pick up women level.

It seems like all the guys in my area are not even AFCs.. They are all CHODES. And being around them, makes me feel like one too! Chodism is quite contagious at times.

So I'll be in NYC for the weekend. Do any of you guys that are experienced with the ****y and funny philosophy want to hook up?

But like my post implies, I dont think cool people exist, at least not in my world. So I get stuck with the town chodes around me all frikkin weekend.. And it's just not fun!

Thanks
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99% of people are dorks. Don't depend on anyone for your success with women. Roll out solo if you have to.
 
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