"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do clubs REALLY work?

ryanvalmont

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Ok i don't know about anywhere else,but in the UK all the clubs are full of hot girls.

Now this is great!,problem being,they ALL goto clubs with boyfriends or in groups where you can't approach em as they get ****ty and funny about it.

I know some of you will say "don't do clubs" but where i live there's only 1 club and the rest of the bars are ok...but i hate bars.

Can some of you guys give me alittle insight into your success in clubs?....don't point me to the bible or anything as i'de rather get real opinions from you guys!.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rogerman

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Two words that will save you alot of troubles:


Eye Contact.



Then anything can start from there. You make your move.
 

ryanvalmont

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Originally posted by Rogerman
Two words that will save you alot of troubles:


Eye Contact.



Then anything can start from there. You make your move.
Ok this is good advice,once i make ec with a girl i like..should i smile or should i kinda look away then back?.

it sounds sad asking,it's just i wanna have an edge on the competition.
 

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Your success depends on how much fun you're willing to have at a club. If you're at a club and you're "not feeling it" then you're not going to have a good time which equals no dancing with any ladies. But usually clubs are not great places to meet people, maybe to meet desperate women.
 

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Yeah but if you go anywhere else it's worse,seem's UK girls are FAR MORE RESERVED than our American friends.

Just the fact guy's are willing to have fun at clubs,and all the girls go for is to sit around with a face like a smacked ass.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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