"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do clubs REALLY work?

ryanvalmont

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Ok i don't know about anywhere else,but in the UK all the clubs are full of hot girls.

Now this is great!,problem being,they ALL goto clubs with boyfriends or in groups where you can't approach em as they get ****ty and funny about it.

I know some of you will say "don't do clubs" but where i live there's only 1 club and the rest of the bars are ok...but i hate bars.

Can some of you guys give me alittle insight into your success in clubs?....don't point me to the bible or anything as i'de rather get real opinions from you guys!.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rogerman

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Two words that will save you alot of troubles:


Eye Contact.



Then anything can start from there. You make your move.
 

ryanvalmont

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Originally posted by Rogerman
Two words that will save you alot of troubles:


Eye Contact.



Then anything can start from there. You make your move.
Ok this is good advice,once i make ec with a girl i like..should i smile or should i kinda look away then back?.

it sounds sad asking,it's just i wanna have an edge on the competition.
 

DeathDealer

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Your success depends on how much fun you're willing to have at a club. If you're at a club and you're "not feeling it" then you're not going to have a good time which equals no dancing with any ladies. But usually clubs are not great places to meet people, maybe to meet desperate women.
 

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Yeah but if you go anywhere else it's worse,seem's UK girls are FAR MORE RESERVED than our American friends.

Just the fact guy's are willing to have fun at clubs,and all the girls go for is to sit around with a face like a smacked ass.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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