"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
do chicks dig the car??
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I have a nice car. 2 actually and they help but just like looks, it only gets yout hough the door, there isn't a car on earth (okay maybe a Bentley) that can close the deal for you.
Damn b1tches are gold diggers lol.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I NEEEEVER drive either of the two cars on a first or second date. EVER. My every day car is nice enough to where a woman will probably still think it's nice (99 lexus SC400 that I had the top chopped off. flashy and sporty yet still extremely elegant)
it's a fine line between attracting girls, attracting them with your means and weeding out the ones who just want you for money what they think is money.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Even a Mazda 5 won't ruin your chances.. I actually kinda like thoose.
but if you are talking about the old school wagon with the wood on the side and the broke window.. than your chances are pretty much gone
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Even when I was doing Red Light Game (picking up girls while stopped at a red light) with that mini-van I got numbers which turned into dates and more.
"Do I look good enough?"
"What if she doesn't like my car?"
"What if she doesn't like the place we go on our date?"
The moment you question yourself in your abilities you will fail. In time you all will destroy your limiting beliefs. :yes:
Jay Lance
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Best post yet..JLance said:
strong like bull
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L777
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Lol, like all the tasteless rappers on cribs? Bentleys are so ugly.backbreaker said:
Try an Aston Martin.....if that doesn't work then you're a hopeless case.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You'll definitely get the attention of women who like nice cars. The real question is what you plan to do to keep their attention.nacho said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.