"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
do chicks dig the car??
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I have a nice car. 2 actually and they help but just like looks, it only gets yout hough the door, there isn't a car on earth (okay maybe a Bentley) that can close the deal for you.
Damn b1tches are gold diggers lol.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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backbreaker
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I NEEEEVER drive either of the two cars on a first or second date. EVER. My every day car is nice enough to where a woman will probably still think it's nice (99 lexus SC400 that I had the top chopped off. flashy and sporty yet still extremely elegant)
it's a fine line between attracting girls, attracting them with your means and weeding out the ones who just want you for money what they think is money.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Even a Mazda 5 won't ruin your chances.. I actually kinda like thoose.
but if you are talking about the old school wagon with the wood on the side and the broke window.. than your chances are pretty much gone
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Even when I was doing Red Light Game (picking up girls while stopped at a red light) with that mini-van I got numbers which turned into dates and more.
"Do I look good enough?"
"What if she doesn't like my car?"
"What if she doesn't like the place we go on our date?"
The moment you question yourself in your abilities you will fail. In time you all will destroy your limiting beliefs. :yes:
Jay Lance
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Play the Game
Master Don Juan
Best post yet..JLance said:
strong like bull
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L777
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Lol, like all the tasteless rappers on cribs? Bentleys are so ugly.backbreaker said:
Try an Aston Martin.....if that doesn't work then you're a hopeless case.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You'll definitely get the attention of women who like nice cars. The real question is what you plan to do to keep their attention.nacho said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.