"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
do chicks dig the car??
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I have a nice car. 2 actually and they help but just like looks, it only gets yout hough the door, there isn't a car on earth (okay maybe a Bentley) that can close the deal for you.
Damn b1tches are gold diggers lol.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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backbreaker
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I NEEEEVER drive either of the two cars on a first or second date. EVER. My every day car is nice enough to where a woman will probably still think it's nice (99 lexus SC400 that I had the top chopped off. flashy and sporty yet still extremely elegant)
it's a fine line between attracting girls, attracting them with your means and weeding out the ones who just want you for money what they think is money.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Even a Mazda 5 won't ruin your chances.. I actually kinda like thoose.
but if you are talking about the old school wagon with the wood on the side and the broke window.. than your chances are pretty much gone
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Even when I was doing Red Light Game (picking up girls while stopped at a red light) with that mini-van I got numbers which turned into dates and more.
"Do I look good enough?"
"What if she doesn't like my car?"
"What if she doesn't like the place we go on our date?"
The moment you question yourself in your abilities you will fail. In time you all will destroy your limiting beliefs. :yes:
Jay Lance
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Play the Game
Master Don Juan
Best post yet..JLance said:
strong like bull
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L777
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Lol, like all the tasteless rappers on cribs? Bentleys are so ugly.backbreaker said:
Try an Aston Martin.....if that doesn't work then you're a hopeless case.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You'll definitely get the attention of women who like nice cars. The real question is what you plan to do to keep their attention.nacho said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.