"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do any of you keep perma girls on the side?

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Ok Iv recently reached a Moral Dilema. I have a girlfriend, but I love to play the game (well I attempt the game). I am still new to this so I started shedding my AFC skin recently. I love to try to play, and the rush it gives me and I love meeting new girls all the time. It gives me something to do like a hobby. Does anyone else do this? Have a girlfriend on the side all whilest playing the game on the side secretly? I know it does sound like a recipe for disaster but that is niether here nor there. I just need to know if that is looked down upon in the PUA community and how some of you have gone about doing this. Thank you

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is your game about laying many women?
 

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Nah not really, its more about picking them up, number closes, or getting them infatuated with me. Im in the moral Dilema about getting laid by em... with the GF n all
 

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Live life with no regrets and never look back, that is my moto.

PUAs are Fags who cares what they think of you or me.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Nah not really, its more about picking them up, number closes, or getting them infatuated with me. Im in the moral Dilema about getting laid by em... with the GF n all
So you think that they'd manhandle you and force you to have sex with them? :rolleyes: If you can't commit to one woman, don't pretend to. Don't even think of it as a moral delima, think of it as something that hurts your game.

Once you're able to sarge without having to close, help out your buds by being a wingman. Hell, taken guys actually make good Kamikazes. You can keep up your approach game and keep up your general DJ IL skills with your gf.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I dont always feel the need to have a # close, and usually when I do I throw the # away. I just like the thrill of the game. Thanks for ur honesty in the comment of if I cant commit to one woman dont pretend to. Ya know Iv tried to get my buddies to go sarging but most of us are taken or they just arent good with woman and see it as a lost cause. Thanks for the input
 

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In the future (not quite applicable since you have a girlfriend), keep the whole thing open for a while. I took about a month before I made it official with my girlfriend because I still had some other interests. Once I was sure, I made us exclusive. Know what you want and act accordingly. No need to lie.

But since you do indeed have a girl, decide what it is you want. If you're just into charming random girls and getting their numbers you can probably do that to your heart's content. They don't need to know you're taken -- you just happen to ooze sexuality and charm and happen to want their number!
 
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