"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do any of you keep perma girls on the side?

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Ok Iv recently reached a Moral Dilema. I have a girlfriend, but I love to play the game (well I attempt the game). I am still new to this so I started shedding my AFC skin recently. I love to try to play, and the rush it gives me and I love meeting new girls all the time. It gives me something to do like a hobby. Does anyone else do this? Have a girlfriend on the side all whilest playing the game on the side secretly? I know it does sound like a recipe for disaster but that is niether here nor there. I just need to know if that is looked down upon in the PUA community and how some of you have gone about doing this. Thank you

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is your game about laying many women?
 

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Nah not really, its more about picking them up, number closes, or getting them infatuated with me. Im in the moral Dilema about getting laid by em... with the GF n all
 

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Live life with no regrets and never look back, that is my moto.

PUAs are Fags who cares what they think of you or me.
 

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Nah not really, its more about picking them up, number closes, or getting them infatuated with me. Im in the moral Dilema about getting laid by em... with the GF n all
So you think that they'd manhandle you and force you to have sex with them? :rolleyes: If you can't commit to one woman, don't pretend to. Don't even think of it as a moral delima, think of it as something that hurts your game.

Once you're able to sarge without having to close, help out your buds by being a wingman. Hell, taken guys actually make good Kamikazes. You can keep up your approach game and keep up your general DJ IL skills with your gf.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I dont always feel the need to have a # close, and usually when I do I throw the # away. I just like the thrill of the game. Thanks for ur honesty in the comment of if I cant commit to one woman dont pretend to. Ya know Iv tried to get my buddies to go sarging but most of us are taken or they just arent good with woman and see it as a lost cause. Thanks for the input
 

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In the future (not quite applicable since you have a girlfriend), keep the whole thing open for a while. I took about a month before I made it official with my girlfriend because I still had some other interests. Once I was sure, I made us exclusive. Know what you want and act accordingly. No need to lie.

But since you do indeed have a girl, decide what it is you want. If you're just into charming random girls and getting their numbers you can probably do that to your heart's content. They don't need to know you're taken -- you just happen to ooze sexuality and charm and happen to want their number!
 
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