"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do any of you keep perma girls on the side?

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Ok Iv recently reached a Moral Dilema. I have a girlfriend, but I love to play the game (well I attempt the game). I am still new to this so I started shedding my AFC skin recently. I love to try to play, and the rush it gives me and I love meeting new girls all the time. It gives me something to do like a hobby. Does anyone else do this? Have a girlfriend on the side all whilest playing the game on the side secretly? I know it does sound like a recipe for disaster but that is niether here nor there. I just need to know if that is looked down upon in the PUA community and how some of you have gone about doing this. Thank you

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is your game about laying many women?
 

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Nah not really, its more about picking them up, number closes, or getting them infatuated with me. Im in the moral Dilema about getting laid by em... with the GF n all
 

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Live life with no regrets and never look back, that is my moto.

PUAs are Fags who cares what they think of you or me.
 

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Nah not really, its more about picking them up, number closes, or getting them infatuated with me. Im in the moral Dilema about getting laid by em... with the GF n all
So you think that they'd manhandle you and force you to have sex with them? :rolleyes: If you can't commit to one woman, don't pretend to. Don't even think of it as a moral delima, think of it as something that hurts your game.

Once you're able to sarge without having to close, help out your buds by being a wingman. Hell, taken guys actually make good Kamikazes. You can keep up your approach game and keep up your general DJ IL skills with your gf.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I dont always feel the need to have a # close, and usually when I do I throw the # away. I just like the thrill of the game. Thanks for ur honesty in the comment of if I cant commit to one woman dont pretend to. Ya know Iv tried to get my buddies to go sarging but most of us are taken or they just arent good with woman and see it as a lost cause. Thanks for the input
 

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In the future (not quite applicable since you have a girlfriend), keep the whole thing open for a while. I took about a month before I made it official with my girlfriend because I still had some other interests. Once I was sure, I made us exclusive. Know what you want and act accordingly. No need to lie.

But since you do indeed have a girl, decide what it is you want. If you're just into charming random girls and getting their numbers you can probably do that to your heart's content. They don't need to know you're taken -- you just happen to ooze sexuality and charm and happen to want their number!
 
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