SnowBlind77
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i was just wondering if any of you guys smoked weed. i used to.....ALOT. but for me it made me anti-social, and i didnt get any girls. anyone else find this?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
it depends on where in Europe you are. I suggest going to a bar and talking to random people, first make some convo, then just ask where you can score some drugs.Exp said:Where do you buy weed? Like if you were walking around in town, would you be able to see how sells?
www.smokingwithstyle.com(start at chapter one, and you should be a pro by the end!)Exp said:I have never smoked weed and I'd like to try it. I know nothing about it, so maybe someone could give me the basics? Like how much to smoke, what to think of etc etc.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hahahaha!lauke said:Pathetic. Relying on plants to get girls.
Weed is classified as a stimulant, depressant and hallucinogenic simultaneously. What do you expect from a government that puts cannabis on Schedule I and amphetamines/cocaine on Schedule II?Bible_Belt said:That actually makes sense. There's the psychological thrill of being a renegade. Chicks dig the bad boy. It probably also makes it difficult to keep up the ASD. But also, pot is a stimulant that increases heart rate. It should also thus increase blood flow, which could provide a physiological explanation in addition to the psychological.
But if a weed habit gets you arrested, keeps you from getting a better job, or keeps you broke from the expense, then these detriments would outweigh the positives.
Kush is pretty good, had it once. Little too much indica for me, but still fun.Bible_Belt said:og kush
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.