SnowBlind77
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i was just wondering if any of you guys smoked weed. i used to.....ALOT. but for me it made me anti-social, and i didnt get any girls. anyone else find this?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
it depends on where in Europe you are. I suggest going to a bar and talking to random people, first make some convo, then just ask where you can score some drugs.Exp said:Where do you buy weed? Like if you were walking around in town, would you be able to see how sells?
www.smokingwithstyle.com(start at chapter one, and you should be a pro by the end!)Exp said:I have never smoked weed and I'd like to try it. I know nothing about it, so maybe someone could give me the basics? Like how much to smoke, what to think of etc etc.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hahahaha!lauke said:Pathetic. Relying on plants to get girls.
Weed is classified as a stimulant, depressant and hallucinogenic simultaneously. What do you expect from a government that puts cannabis on Schedule I and amphetamines/cocaine on Schedule II?Bible_Belt said:That actually makes sense. There's the psychological thrill of being a renegade. Chicks dig the bad boy. It probably also makes it difficult to keep up the ASD. But also, pot is a stimulant that increases heart rate. It should also thus increase blood flow, which could provide a physiological explanation in addition to the psychological.
But if a weed habit gets you arrested, keeps you from getting a better job, or keeps you broke from the expense, then these detriments would outweigh the positives.
Kush is pretty good, had it once. Little too much indica for me, but still fun.Bible_Belt said:og kush
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.