SnowBlind77
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i was just wondering if any of you guys smoked weed. i used to.....ALOT. but for me it made me anti-social, and i didnt get any girls. anyone else find this?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
it depends on where in Europe you are. I suggest going to a bar and talking to random people, first make some convo, then just ask where you can score some drugs.Exp said:Where do you buy weed? Like if you were walking around in town, would you be able to see how sells?
www.smokingwithstyle.com(start at chapter one, and you should be a pro by the end!)Exp said:I have never smoked weed and I'd like to try it. I know nothing about it, so maybe someone could give me the basics? Like how much to smoke, what to think of etc etc.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hahahaha!lauke said:Pathetic. Relying on plants to get girls.
Weed is classified as a stimulant, depressant and hallucinogenic simultaneously. What do you expect from a government that puts cannabis on Schedule I and amphetamines/cocaine on Schedule II?Bible_Belt said:That actually makes sense. There's the psychological thrill of being a renegade. Chicks dig the bad boy. It probably also makes it difficult to keep up the ASD. But also, pot is a stimulant that increases heart rate. It should also thus increase blood flow, which could provide a physiological explanation in addition to the psychological.
But if a weed habit gets you arrested, keeps you from getting a better job, or keeps you broke from the expense, then these detriments would outweigh the positives.
Kush is pretty good, had it once. Little too much indica for me, but still fun.Bible_Belt said:og kush
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.